Monday, April 20
Galatians 5:22-26
By contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against such things. And those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also be guided by the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, competing against one another, envying one another.
Yesterday Pastor Paul completed his series called “Ripening Fruit” by looking at kindness.
The Fruit of the Spirit is made up of nine characteristics that develop the fruit. Another way to think of these characteristics is seeds. The nine are worth memorizing for they form the most important parts of our character.
Those nine are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.
The English transliteration for kindness is chrestotes. One way to think of this is “to meet needs in God’s way.” To respond to people with kindness or chrestotes is to get out of ourselves and see the situation from God’s perspective. This, of course, is not easy to do. We must let go of the emotions we might experience in the situation.
It’s hard to think that we could look at something from God’s perspective, but we can imagine what God would want. This doesn’t mean we are God, of course. Instead, we are imaging what God wants.
Have you found yourself in a situation where you let go of your own emotions and tried to look through the situation from the lens of God? Please share what you found helpful.
Tuesday, April 21
Romans 2:1-4
Therefore you are without excuse, whoever you are, when you judge others, for in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, are doing the very same things. We know that God’s judgment on those who do such things is in accordance with truth. Do you imagine, whoever you are, that when you judge those who do such things and yet do them yourself, you will escape the judgment of God? Or do you despise the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience? Do you not realize that God’s kindness is meant to lead you to repentance?
Verse four is an excellent description of God. The Apostle Paul was talking about the many characteristics of God in this passage and how those characteristics make an impact on our own lives. He wrote:
“Do you despise the riches of [God’s] kindness and forbearance and patience? Do you not realize that God’s kindness is meant to lead you to repentance?
Repentance is not just admitting our own sins. It’s also turning to God. When we repent, we are giving ourselves to God.
When you think of God what images come to your mind? One of the images that the Apostle Paul wanted people to carry was kindness. God is full of divine kindness.
What is also significant is this kindness leads us to treat others with kindness. When we understand or experience the kindness of God, we can share more easily kindness ourselves.
Have you had moments when you experienced the fullness of God kindness? And perhaps you wanted to then share kindness with others because you experienced this kindness. Please share.
Wednesday, April 22
Proverbs 21:21, 31:26
Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life and honor.
She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
Proverbs are like small sayings that are snippets of wisdom. We learn about what a wise life is by reading Proverbs. We must be careful with some individual proverbs as they can be taken out of context to share a meaning that the writer did not intend.
The first phrase is a description of a life full of honor. A person who pursues righteousness and kindness will find a life of honor.
The second phrase is a description of Lady Wisdom, that is a person who personifies wisdom. Such a person didn’t exist. But the writer of Proverbs was creating a person and then sharing important characteristics of that person. Such a person always spoke with kindness. The teaching of kindness is always on our tongue.
Do you know of a person who looked at the world with kindness? This person was always seeing and responding to the world through kindness. Even if they were having a hard day, the person would still respond with kindness. Who have you known who has exemplified this? Please share.
Thursday, April 23
Micah 6:6-8
“With what shall I come before the Lord
and bow myself before God on high?
Shall I come before him with burnt offerings,
with calves a year old?
Will the Lord be pleased with thousands of rams,
with ten thousands of rivers of oil?
Shall I give my firstborn for my transgression,
the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul?”
He has told you, O mortal, what is good,
and what does the Lord require of you
but to do justice and to love kindness
and to walk humbly with your God?
Kindness is often found in the Old Testament. In this very famous passage God was telling the prophet Micah what was ultimately most important in faith. Faith was much more than sharing extraordinary amounts of sacrifice. Faith was about loving kindness.
We can understand that God wanted Micah to have a passion for kindness. Loving kindness was much more than an obligation. It was a spiritual condition of a person’s heart. A person wanted to go out of their way to love kindness. This is what made a person good.
In his sermon this past Sunday, Pastor Paul talked about the difference between kindness and being nice. As people who live in Minnesota, we might have experience with Minnesota Nice. It’s wonderful to be nice, but one of the problems is being nice is not authentic. Being nice is something we’re supposed to do and it’s not part of our heart.
What are some obstacles that you’ve encountered to loving kindness?
Friday, April 24
2 Corinthians 6:1-10
As we work together with him, we entreat you also not to accept the grace of God in vain. For he says,
“At an acceptable time I have listened to you,
and on a day of salvation I have helped you.”
Look, now is the acceptable time; look, now is the day of salvation! We are putting no obstacle in anyone’s way, so that no fault may be found with our ministry, but as servants of God we have commended ourselves in every way: in great endurance, afflictions, hardships, calamities, beatings, imprisonments, riots, labors, sleepless nights, hunger; in purity, knowledge, patience, kindness, holiness of spirit, genuine love, truthful speech, and the power of God; with the weapons of righteousness for the right hand and for the left; in honor and dishonor, in ill repute and good repute. We are treated as impostors and yet are true, as unknown and yet are well known, as dying and look—we are alive, as punished and yet not killed, as sorrowful yet always rejoicing, as poor yet making many rich, as having nothing and yet possessing everything.
These verses are like what we read from Galatians on Monday. We read about a list of very positive qualities. Paul was sharing the qualities of a follower of Jesus.
In verse six he listed important qualities. He listed purity, knowledge, patience, kindness, holiness of spirit, genuine love, truthful speech, and the power of God.
The gift of grace would prompt someone to live this way. This is how Paul wanted people to respond with God. Because we understand and have experienced grace, we cannot help but respond with these qualities. Living with kindness is a profoundly spiritual task. When we understand the gift of grace, we have and what a significant gift it is, we cannot help but respond with kindness.
Do you know of someone who responds with kindness because of understanding grace?
Saturday, April 25
Colossians 3:12-17
Therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. Bear with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; teach and admonish one another in all wisdom; and with gratitude in your hearts sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
In these verses the Apostle Paul was talking about the new life in Christ. People who followed Christ would clothe themselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. Like we read about yesterday these qualities are quite spiritual. We don’t just act with the qualities. They are the way we respond to the love of God.
Our task then is not to just focus on the actual quality. Instead, our task is to focus on what God has given to us and the significance of God’s gift of grace. When we reflect deeply on grace, we cannot help but share kindness. Kindness, then is not something we ought or should do; kindness is our response to the gift of grace that God has given to us.
What are your thoughts about kindness as a response to what God has given to us? Please share.